Be careful of thinking that your life could possibly be governed by the ideas and behaviors of others.
You are not depressed because your father abandoned you decades ago. You are not a terrible person because your partner said so. You are not in the job you want because your government has not created it.
Life has One Cause. And that Cause places no limits on man. That Cause is Love. Know of anyone who has accomplished great things despite being abandoned, judged, or neglected by their government? You are the effect of Love. Period.
Be careful of the cause you choose.