For far too long now the mind, and its counterpart, the ego have been living in your house for free.
They come and go without letting you know, smash your furniture and appliances, leave things out of place, and keep your house in a terrible mess, sometimes beyond recognition.
Love has moved in, and displaced those two squatters.
The only thing left for you to do is to officially evict them. This might take some time, but it is worth it.