You think that it is dangerous to be your true Self. You construct a false Self to throw people off at home and work; to protect your Self.
Guess what? You are doing the opposite. The more you deny the expression of your true, authentic Self, the more that Self hurts. You also hurt others. They – your partner, children, family, friends, colleagues – want to be with the True you, the you that is the infinite expression of joy, goodness, love, truth, spirit, patience, intelligence, harmony, and so on.
So, please, introduce your Self.